tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-568654854152125392.post2619923911582291690..comments2023-06-17T06:09:18.933-07:00Comments on Alcoholics Life: Making Changes In My LifePlus Size Sports Apparel Review Girlhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13289658839073619554noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-568654854152125392.post-11415144625037175672011-03-19T00:08:01.563-07:002011-03-19T00:08:01.563-07:00My exbf is an alcoholic. I HAD to leave him. I did...My exbf is an alcoholic. I HAD to leave him. I did not want to leave him-I did not want to reject him. But HE NEEDS TO HIT BOTTOM.<br /><br />It is only when you alcoholics realize you have no other choices, and that your life has become a living hell and everyone has left, do you have hope of changing. Otherwise those of us who stay, end up enabling you by feeling obligated to do the things for you that you cannot do for yourself in your drunken state.<br /><br />You have NO idea how horrible it is to watch a loved one do what you're doing. It's the most painful gut-wrenching experience.<br /><br />THe people who left you still love you. They just had no choice. Hopefully they will be there when you choose to get sober. I hope you do choose that-it is the only way to health and happiness. Right now, you are choosing DEATH.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-568654854152125392.post-12863555960092479832010-11-10T21:26:39.576-08:002010-11-10T21:26:39.576-08:00OH my god your living my life. I just moved into m...OH my god your living my life. I just moved into my own place. I am a in recovery. I had trouble with my last roommate things are soo much better now that I am living alone. Like you said much more conducive, it basically intrudes on your whole life when your trying to be healthy and someone is bringing you down.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-568654854152125392.post-60994471203631043612010-10-16T03:02:07.653-07:002010-10-16T03:02:07.653-07:00To Making changes in my life: I just want to say t...To Making changes in my life: I just want to say that people that loved you did not reject you. I have experienced close to me with alcoholism. It is hard to put up with someone that is out of control and keeps saying that they are going to stop.It is not rejection, it is survivel because alcoholics drain you. But, there is hope, God our Savior says that His love is sufficient, He is your source of peace, your salvation.Seek Him and you will find HIm and He will give you rest. I am sure when you are truely recovered and not touching alcohol, your family, and close friends will be there. If not, God's love is sufficient.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com