tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-568654854152125392.post722364661308187977..comments2023-06-17T06:09:18.933-07:00Comments on Alcoholics Life: Drunk On Christmas DayPlus Size Sports Apparel Review Girlhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13289658839073619554noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-568654854152125392.post-68318711999979219232011-03-18T23:56:33.242-07:002011-03-18T23:56:33.242-07:00Anonymous said a very smart thing.
The woman who ...Anonymous said a very smart thing.<br /><br />The woman who made the first comment - face your codependency. Figure out why you're letting yourself play 2nd fiddle to a bottle.<br /><br />Figure out why you're letting yourself be treated like a doormat.<br /><br />Figure out why you are satisfied being a hostage-cuz alcoholics don't have relationships. tHey take hostages.<br /><br />Figure out why you can't do the right thing for your alcoholic friend and let him hit bottom. You're keeping him from his bottom and possibly keeping him from getting sober.<br /><br />Read codependent no more by melody beattie...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-568654854152125392.post-14753693733838597382011-03-01T13:08:14.173-08:002011-03-01T13:08:14.173-08:00Yes, don't ask for advice from people that can...Yes, don't ask for advice from people that can't be honest with themselves (alcoholics) would be the first step.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-568654854152125392.post-68803649462769716272010-12-26T23:58:57.924-08:002010-12-26T23:58:57.924-08:00Hi,
I stumbled across your blog because I was look...Hi,<br />I stumbled across your blog because I was looking for a way to be there for my best friend without causing him more pain. He has destryoed a number of relationships (including ours) and continues to hurt others in his path to finding answers in a bottle. He is an artist with so much talent and it seems to be slipping away with every drop he drinks. He is more creative sober. I have never and will never abandon him but some days are so hard when his actions can be so hurtful...Am I the crazy one for wanting to be there for him no matter what or am I going to cause him more pain than good. I want him to stop doing this to himself but he almost has a romance with alcohol but its only momentary and then the sadness and disappointment in himself follows and the loss of another job and cheating on another unsuspecting woman who thinks he is "fun" to hang out and drink with...It killed his grandfather (he took his own life) I dont want it to kill him. Any advise for how I can appraoch him without hurting him more would be very much appreciated. I love him so much N.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com